A Celebration of Life Ceremony: Review from Patrick Fellows about how he managed from 7,000 miles away to organise his father’s funeral within days.
E. Harold Fellows. MBE.
My father had lived in Northern Cyprus for over 30 years. I wanted his funeral service to be a celebration of his life rather than a mourning of his passing.
Living over 7,000 Km away was causing me some concern regarding the arrangements of the service, particularly who would conduct it and how they would know what to say.
What Happened Next
Rosie was recommended to me as a very competent, experienced celebrant. With less than a week before the ceremony, Rosie got in touch with me via WhatsApp. We had a lovely, informal talk, discussing my late father’s life and friends. After our conversation, and despite the short time scale and her already busy schedule, Rosie did her research. Rosie suggested some music that could be played. She suggested that we could also live-stream the service for his friends and relatives who would not be able to attend in person.
We communicated several times over the coming days. Rosie designed a funeral notice banner that she then published on the local expat forums. This informed people about my father’s passing away and the details of the ceremony.
On The Day
I only met Rosie in person on the day of the service. She had coordinated with everybody, the British Cemetery Committee, the Royal British Legion, and the music and streaming services. The service proceeded seamlessly.
These ceremonies can often be quite clinical and impersonal. I have to say that with Rosie’s organisation and delivery skills, she made it seem she had known my late father for many years. As well as specifically mentioning members of his direct family in the ceremony that she crafted, she also included the people who took care of him during the last months of his life. She also asked some of his close friends to give tributes during the service.
The music and live stream went without a hitch and meant so much to those who couldn’t attend on the day. It truly was a celebration of his life.
Thank you so much, Rosie. Patrick Fellows.
Celebration of Life for E. Harold Fellows, MBE
It was both an honour and a privilege to lead this Celebration of Life for an extraordinary man.
E. Harold Fellows was recognised by King Charles III and former President Rauf Denktash for his exceptional work and contributions to society. I learnt so much about Harry whilst preparing his ceremony. Harry dedicated himself tirelessly to our community, leaving an indelible mark that will resonate for years to come.
He will be deeply missed, yet his memory will forever remain in our hearts. The legacy he has created will continue to enrich our lives and inspire future generations. Let us cherish the moments we shared and keep his spirit alive in our actions and endeavors.
My thanks go to The British Cemetery Committee, The Royal British Legion, and our music and streaming services for your assistance in making Harry’s ceremony memorable.